Finding Prince Charming.

Like many of my blogs this one comes from observation of the people around me. In this case it's the people I come in contact with on Facebook. I constantly see women complaining about how they can't find their Prince Charming, and while it's not always the case, I often find that these women are no princesses themselves. Often times they have long histories of being "heart breakers" or "man eaters" and they still think they're entitled to some special treatment. The same goes for the opposite side of the spectrum as well, but I tend to notice the females posting their relationship woes online more often than the males so they'll be the ones that I address. Just keep in mind that it goes both ways while reading this.
Women. If you want to party and be promiscuous, that's fine. It's part of being a young person and very few people have the self control to fight the peer pressure and stay away from that lifestyle. Just bear in mind that you aren't going to find your dream guy while you're participating in such debauchery. Chances are you're going to run into lots of douche bags that only "want you for one thing". That's to be expected when you're portraying yourself as a party girl. Don't expect to find Mr. Right in a room full of horny drunks. What you're more likely to find is that the guys have no respect for you because you have no respect for yourself. If you want to find your Prince Charming you're going to have to look somewhere where being charming wouldn't be out of place. It's up to you to figure out how that applies to you. For some of you that might mean that you look at work or school, and for others it might mean the library or grocery store.
Maybe you aren't the party girl type and you still can't find the right guy. Maybe it's because you've scared them all off by dating so many guys and getting rid of them after a short period of time. Guys have emotions too, and if they know you're going to dump them in a couple of weeks why would they want to waste their time or take the hit to their self esteem? It's easier for them to just avoid being with you so that they don't have to deal with the extra drama. It's okay to be single sometimes. You don't have to keep guys lined up. In fact you're better off NOT having your next partner in mind while you're with someone else. That just leads to wandering eyes and then the inevitable heartbreak.
I truly believe that there is someone out there for everyone. No matter how fat, ugly, mean, or slutty you are, there's someone out there that will love you for you, but that doesn't mean they're a Prince. If you want a Prince you might just have to stop being a bitch and be someone worth holding in high regard and treated like a Princess. Stop complaining about how many toads you've had to kiss in search of your Prince and take into consideration that YOU might be the toad.

TLDR: Quit being a bitch and guys might actually like you.